Firstly.
This club has no official connection to Toyota.
It is an owners club, where Toyota owners and enthusiasts can meet.
Secondly, I understand your frustration, HOWEVER, I have NEVER heard Toyota having the reputation of being Quiet - if you want silence, buy a Lexus...
Toyota has a reputation for reliability.
If your not happy with your car, i do feel for you, however, i do think you are over-reacting to the issue, surely if you bought the car new, and you were unhappy you could request a refund or replacement, and the fact you havent suggests you cannot be that unhappy with the car..